Ever heard of escorted holidays?
I have a brother who is handicapped. He is in a wheel chair for life. My brother tries to lead a full life. He attends church, goes out to dinner, goes shopping, sees the latest movies, etc. During the holidays, all activities are doubled. During these times he relies on escorted holidays, where I help him accomplish all his daily tasks. My brother is in a wheel chair due to a Vietnam injury. He won a purple heart for bravery and honor. I am more than happy to return the honor by helping him during the holidays to lead a full life.