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It has happened. You broke up. Now, you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back. Hold on to your hats, ladies. The answer is not what you think. Do not call him and beg. Do not drive past his house. Please, do not call his mother and have her take up your cause. The real secret is to start working on you. Start by reflecting upon what made the relationship fall apart. Were you controlling, moody, or taking things out on him? If so, try working on these aspects of your personality and see if you can get them in check. Ask friends if they see in you some of the negative traits he felt you had. Once you know your faults, get working on ‘em! It may help to read some self-help books or, if these flaws are affecting other aspects of your life, you may want to get some help from a professional. Lastly, work on your outer appearance as this can help to motivate inner change. Get a makeover, start exercising, and buy a new dress. It may take awhile but when he hears about the new you, he will be back. And, when it happens, you may find you are not that interested in him anymore!